Writings chapter 1

Animal tales & tails of animals .

EARTH

One animal ; one species= individual responsive . Two animals ; same species = an interactive zone of communication. Three or more animals, same species/or different species. =. A WAY OF LIFE.

. That’s about it, about me, and a period in my life. More specific.: the period when, during 20 years or more, horses from three years up to 5 yearlings came into my life. Most of them left six months or so later in life., leaving them with an impression of a human encounter and left me with a memory of laughter and skills. I didn’t consider myself successfully graduated in this. When I was younger., I had too much fun with all the horses I got to train so I didn’t aim for success or ambition. When I became older and more mature in that matter, I realised That there are as many different ways in training as there are different races of horses. So I didn’t care too much about proclaiming my way also because I saw that bottom line it’s the horses adapting themselves towards any kind of way or type of training. Some ways gave result and some turned into facts. I was left with a gift a gift from the horses I can say that it came not only from the horses i’ve trained but more specifically with the horses I never met before. I became aware of this each time I encountered a horse for the first time Each time I asked something, or moved in a certain way…. they responded with a kind of recognition. In a sense they recognised the.” gain.” I have had with the horses that I have trained.. Simply I became aware about my moves and intentions because they connected with me on that level . The horses recognised my previous encounters and communication I’ve had with previous horses. Like they mirrored my every move. For me that was my diploma, my achievements and for me it was their gift.

THANKS TO:

A young girl stared at a group of horses far away on the horizon. Curiosity brought me closer to your way of life. My character is formed by your group . Now in life, I can place you back on the horizon . What remains is numerous tales . The tales are perishable. However, your presence……. My heartbeat.

Note of the author: Thanks Yvette for my time in the riding school. The trust and freedom that I received from you, founded my basis for the rest of my life. Anne

PREFACE. Before you start reading the stories or the tales sometimes I will write stories in English and sometime I will write them in Dutch, which is my maternal language. In certain time frames of my life, I would write things down of a certain fashion . How I choose my words and how I structure my sentence, it can be quite difficult to follow /or the reader prefer another structure of the sentence. If you go to the etymology or origin of certain words, one can see, that on a regular basis the words that we use can differ with each coming generation. It’s more like if you’re talking horses. Other people who are involved with horses all their life or a specific timeframe in their life they will get the picture because that’s what it’s all about ; about the picture that forms in your mind while reading the stories.. So on a practical note, I will try to install as soon as possible a button for translation. On the other hand, I can’t care less about the remarks. I tried many times. I read out loud the things I wrote and I would change certain sentence, or I would choose other words so…… I’m done with that. I try to get it as good as possible out there and you know….. I lived those stories and the feel is what I convey. It’s not about the memories it’s not about my memoirs because when I wrote down everything about “Animal Tales and Tails of Animals” or “In the midst of things” it becomes history and then a new page starts…….. only to turn into an old page at a specific moment. It never ends. Anne

Meet VEERLE

The first two horses, were the kind that seem to have the etiquette label written in their genes. They attentively understood what I was trying to obtain, and most of the time they tuned towards this in every way they could. For me, it was a good way to improve my lounging the horses. They would know what the circle should look like, and it didn’t matter where or how I managed my position. These horses came down from a dressage lineage (Adlerfelsen stallion 1967). These horses knew how to make a circle and they did this with the cadence; like rhythmic pulses of a metronome. And on top of that with a nice finishing bend that matched the size of their circle.. In that period, other horses came along as well as ‘Seigneur ‘. This was the horse that learned me my first dressage skills. Most of the Adlerfelsen stallion lineage were chestnut colour. So once the horses were trained, I was able for six months or so, or until they were sold, to attend to some concours of dressage. Since it was their first tryouts in the field of competition, these younglings could lighten up the atmosphere. Some attended dressage riders weren’t too happy with this. I can recall the moments where the other dressage riders were looking for me, and some people would say, well when you see some horses legs in the air, then that’s where she is. I always wondered why they choose a uniform like a white riding trousers, white shirt, white colour band with a golden needle a a black jacket with golden coloured buttons. For me it felt like going through a military training camp being dressed up. I can easily say that my mother had a hard time to clean and wash, to get it back to a spotless state. Anyway for me and the young horses it was a fun day. It was an adventure day, because you never knew what was going to happen and I was really glad that we made it through the basic test. With pleasure I can say that with Veerle I won my first and last champion cup.

In my early beginnings of training horses, I started to make some deals for myself. The horses came in at the age of three years or were becoming three years old that same year. They came in from the prairies, living in groups. And they didn’t have much contact with people. They were not handled too much, they were just cared for, which was a good thing. The only thing that happened, was when some of them needed a castration, or taking care for injuries, they were all taught how to deal with a halter and a rope, they let the horses for a moment free with a halter and the rope on the ground, in order to feel the limit. When they stepped onto the rope, they would feel the limits of the halter. Every year they would bring in, like 5 to 6 horses for training and for them it was difficult to be separated and suddenly being in separate boxes. Before I started a training.; my first rule or conditioning or a deal with them is to leave them space and time in order that the horses would get used to my smell and my movements. So I had an old T-shirt and I left that T-shirt behind in their stable. The second rule or deal is that I would go and put myself in their stable and look out like they do so I can get a glimpse of how it felt and meanwhile they got used to my presence. well, that was just for the beginning and it helped the horses. After a few days the horses were glad that they could leave the stable and at that moment there was already a kind of recognition between us. So we were good to move on. Now we were ready to enter the indoor riding school or indoor paddock so what happened?. Then I set them free and I just give them some space to get acquainted with this indoor space. Now you have to know that the cafeteria was overlooking the indoor riding paddock from the horse’s point of view it was like two or 3 m above their head and there was always a lot of movement of people getting up, sitting down, noises, and all this above their heads. So once, they get comfortable with people standing up and looking down through the window, then it was just a matter of approaching them putting the halter on and lead them back to their box. Next step was lounging the horses and get them accustomed to the bridal the Girth/belly strap and saddle without the stirrups. Most of the time I started out with purely a cinch, then the saddle and later on when the lounging on the right and the left side was okay then the bridal . all of this was a daily routine, not long, like for 20 minutes or so, and I always ended when I saw that the horse learned something . Usually the Monday was the day off for all the horses. On Monday, they would go out in groups on the prairies.

When everything went smoothly, I asked somebody to help me to get on them. Once sitting in the saddle, I did some exercise movements with my body and waited until they were accustomed that there was something above their head that they weren’t used to. I must admit that then I needed to think things through, because the horse could always see my gestures my movements my position and act on that ( upon the ground) and that was our communication through sight. Now I was in a different position being on top of them and they would not see me. Sometimes I would ask Yvette or Maud for the helping hand, but even then I needed to find a way how to lead them and pick up the communication through the legs, arms, the reins. Since it was mostly me and the horses alone, I need to find a solution, if I would stay in the indoor riding paddock then mostly of the time the horse would naturally would like to go where the other horses are and so I would always have to pull them away from them, and by doing that, we would both learn the things that we didn’t want to achieve, now I needed another vision on this. I decided to continue with me and the horse and nobody else so usually I will take them out into the great forest and walked next to him or her and then at a certain moment I would climb up and I presumed that he would follow the horse trails in the forest. And when I have to make a turn, then I would put my weight left, right, behind and forth, in order to feel the directions and give the horses a sense of the direction I was pointing out. When I mentioned the horse trails and that the horses would follow the horse trails well that was just wishful thinking, but I can, say after all these years looking back, only a few horses wanted to take off during these walks but most of them were fine and from here on, long walks in the woods. The lessons of indoor riding started after the walks. There the learning of making circles, changing hands throughout diagonal lines, coming to a stop and all those things. One more thing, strangely, I never learned them to Gallop . It was always walking and trotting, to me it was more than the gallop should be taught by the new owner or rider. Or maybe, it was just that I realised that our ways we’re going to be separated. Both, Veerle and Vonfelsen left with their owner..

Meet FANTAST

Many years later, there was a horse Fantast. (Dressage lineage FANTASTIQUE 1971) Fantast made me remember the basic training of the young dressage horses. Fantast did everything so quickly that in a matter of five days I really needed to change the scenery of my training.. Saddle……. No problem………. The girth on the saddle……. No problem…….. to lounge…….. no problem. Hanging over him……. No problem. Sitting on top of him…….. no problem. Everything was good for him………. But……. For him it was settled he was going to run always in circles,no straight lines. I asked a friend with her horse to help me out here.I asked her to keep her horse very close to my left side as well as the left side of fantast. We started our walk outside into the forest with the intention to ride long horse trails straight ahead. Our walk started like this…….. as soon as we started to walk, the horse next to him, well Fantast, placed his head over the neck of the other horse pushing him completely off track. After a few times we managed and at the end of the promenade it was all good. We only needed one outside trip. To me, Fantast was the fastest horse that integrated the training course. He met his owner soon after. Looking back to the two stallions ADLERFELSEN and FANTASTIQUE ; they were really nice intelligent good stallions and one of their offspring stole my heart his name SEIGNEUR

SEIGNEUR, MY FINE AND GENTLE TEACHER.

I can recall every moment that we spent together.

When we were separated, a part of me, went forever with you. And you, throughout my whole life are still to this day, present in me. You did not only showed me dressage, but you were the first horse where I discovered my healing abilities, or perhaps it was you and me, by having so much fun together, that the weakness in your legs were overcome when riding only with me……..

Note of the Author

The downside of training young horses, was having to say goodbye or being separated forever. This because which I can understand, when the horses were sold, you were not allowed to look them up, and I never knew where they were sold to.

New chapter 2 coming on 25 November 2025.

In the midst of things,,.

AIR

Around the year 1996 a change in my life was needed. I left the riding school where I trained the young horses, to find my own path. It was already a few years that, beside training young horses I also gave some lessons being an instructor to adults and kids. I noticed that once the kids and adults knew how trot & Gallop, that for a lot of people and kids it would end with that. But they still didn’t know much about horses and could not learn to know unless they buy a pony or a horse.

So, it could go three ways . One way they would buy a horse and continue dressage, walks or a little bit of jumping. Shortcut, they become an owner but here again they don’t know what a horse is, they know how to ride them but a lot more comes with that, and when I mean a lot, you also have the issues that the riding school has their own conditions, veterinary and all other obligated rules of internal management. Secondly.: kids would ask for their next present or birthday, Santa Claus et cetera et cetera I want a pony I want my own horse……. And this is what worried me a lot. Because a lot of parents didn’t know how to treat or care for a horse so they presume…….. oh I have a little garden or my aunt has a great garden and you know a pony can also keep the garden clean and so we don’t have to mow the lawn…… Thirdly : the hobby will end and the kids would find another hobby.

So I decided to turn my hobby into work and for a few years I went to support kids and their pony or horse at home. From this, I had a job offer in an other riding school, this was a kind of explosive nova; I started there with like six kids and in a matter of a few months went up to 60. Great times until something changed. Finally, this made me stronger and I bought my farm, my own ponies and horses. I did lose my mother and father too in these turbulent years. And above all a horse that changed my whole view and later on another horse that turned the new view with a 360° . My life went from all to all anew, meaning starting from the beginnings.

But, friend and friendships came along to. NiCKY AND BEN : so gratefull for your presence and friendship in my life. If anything that Horses are capable off, is the ability to form friendship & kinships among the human existence.

T’ KIKKERTJE

Het was zo een dag van….dat alles op een automatische piloot loopt. Niet dat je verstrooid bent of iets verwacht of dat je verdwaalt in eigen gedachten, neen gewoon een dag begint.

Ik kijk door het keukenraam en automatisch begin ik na te gaan of de paarden er allemaal zijn. 1-2-3-4-5-6-7-8-9 Ja dat is ok, ik denk aan de weide aan de overkant van de steenweg ; wat verder achter landbouwgronden. De weide die ‘ De HILLS ‘ noem, daar ga ik straks even kijken hoe de nacht verlopen is. Welk weer was het vannacht? Neen , er was niets speciaal of abnormaal bedenk ik, dus het zal wel ok zijn. Je moet weten dat in mijn boerderij, boven op zolder ik een zeer ruime loft-achtige kamer heb gemaakt, zo mijn eigen terugtrekplaatsje, zelf in mekaar geprutst, dus m.a.w. er zijn nog wel luchtgaten en deze zijn groot genoeg om mijn 3 katten te zien passeren om dan zo onopgemerkt mogelijk aan het voeteinde van mijn bed te komen liggen. Over het algemeen reageer ik zo van « move «. Dit ging zo elke nacht door. Ik legde me neer en eens het donker werd, kon ik Puss-in-boots boven mijn hoofd voelen passeren. Ik heb me erbij moeten neerleggen, ze komen punt. Het volgend stadium was…. ik hoor een bonk wanneer ze binnenspringen…..dan volledige stilte…..dan hoor ik ze spinnen wanneer ze ter hoogte van mijn hoofd passeren…..dan verdwijnt het geluid en voel dat ze op een hoekje aan de rand van mijn bed gaan liggen. Ik draai me om en ga slapen. Het is ongelooflijk wat men een goede nachtrust zou kunnen noemen. Voor mezelf is dit momenteel ; de rust van gemengde bekende geluiden. Paarden die briesen…..das ok. Paarden die ‘piepen’, dan ai en vlug afvragen..?wie staat bij wie?. Één van de paarden dat ik hoor weg galopperen ?…Ah…dan zal de rest van paarden achter op de weide staan. Een groep die naar de stallen galoppeert ? …euh…ofwel jagen ze er eentje achterna of een andere heeft een signaal gegeven en lopen ze weg omwille van dat signaal…..of ze zijn aan het spelen. Soms steek ik mijn hoofd door de velux en daar zie ik hun silhouetten ; prachtige gestroomlijnde zwarte bewegende schaduwlijnen. Er is iets prachtig aan de silhouette van een paard, die bewegende elegantie dat afsteekt tegen de donkerte van de nacht. Alles blijkt een normale nacht te zijn. Ik trek mijn hoofd terug, doe de Velux dicht. Puss-in-boots heft even zijn hoofd op maar weet toch dat ik me terug neerleg. Ik ga terug slapen en in de roes van de bekende geluidjes kom ik tot mijn slaapritme.

Mijn dag begon dus vrij automatisch, zo van, lijstje in mijn hoofd aflopen ;-check paarden, waar zijn honden, hoeveel katten zijn er komen eten?, is milkyway (konijn) nog vrij aan het rondlopen? -check de paarden hun conditie, zijn er kleine verwondingen …-Check de huishoudelijke taken, eten halen, mijn kids halen, andere kids ophalen van het school, dan starten van de lessen…..kortom een gesystematiseerde dag. Vooraleer ik Sam ging ophalen , ruimde ik zijn kamer nog even op. Tot mijn verrassing vond ik een kikker in zijn kamer.

T’kikkertje zat vast op Sam zijn kamer. God weet hoe lang al. Ik wandelde met t’kikkertje in een glazen bokaal naar buiten en zette hem vrij op de wei naast een plas water. Bezorgd maar eerder meer nieuwsgierig bleef ik kijken naar dat kikkertje. Kijken of hij nog leefde en wat hijzelf nog kon. Ik wist niet hoelang dat kikkertje in de kamer had vastgezeten, dus ik ging blijven kijken en wachten tot de kikker besliste te bewegen, ja, dat zou goed zijn.

Na een paar minuten lande er een insect op een grasspriet en eigenlijk vlak voor de kikker zijn neus, ik dacht van ……oei dat beestje gaat niet lang leven….maar er gebeurde niets. Ik ondernam geen acties en besloot gewoon wachten en te blijven kijken. Wat later kwam Puss-in-boots mijne kater aangewandeld en ik dacht van …..oei oei de kikker! Puss-in-boots legde zich naast de plas water in het zonnetje neer en weer gebeurde er niets. Doodstil hielde ik mij, niet wetende wat er ging gebeuren. Puss-in-boots lag daar maar wat te liggen, hij was meer geïnteresseerd in het opnemen van de warme zonnestralen dan in de kikker. Dan kwam ‘Happy’ onze Jack Russel erbij en weer dacht ik aan ‘een explosief gebeuren’ want als er iets was, wat een Jack Russel goed in is, dan is het ‘de lieve vrede verstoren’….weer gebeurde er niets. Het moment dat ik zag dat er een spin een web begon te weven en dat Puss-in-boots gebruikt werd als één uiteinde voor de spin haar web-anker en tegelijk de groep paarden zich ook bijvoegde , ben ik opgestaan, mijn accumulatieve gedachtengang achter gelaten en mijn nieuwsgierigheid vervuld door het leven van al de verschillende wezentjes in het leven. Zo van ….. If you think you know what’s coming …..think again.

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New story available on 25 November 2025

Event horizons

FIRE

This brings me back to a little pony I once had. I called him Mc.guyver. This name really suited him. He had a dabble grey ( white &little black/brown spot tings) His original name was mosquito and he lived a happy free life within 100 kind of other horses in the Ardennes. I was looking for a pony for my son and the owner was looking for someone who can take mosquito to another country because he had such a free mind that he always knew how to evade & escape. Nevertheless, he never did that alone on his own, no he took friends with him. Let’s say he had a happy character and he never broke the wires. No, he could climb between them without damaging anything and that was the problem. How do you keep a horse in if he knows how to lower his head and neck and at the meantime raise his knees high enough in order to go between the two wires. He had a body that matches perfectly the scheme he was up to. His curves and angles were perfect, all that and the flexibility that went with it. The name I gave him was really right up to him, yep!! he was a pony that knew all about people and he made that very clear to them. But there was also something about him, that in time, I came to understand. He learned me some things about horses too. I would probably have missed out if it was not for him.

The first story where that happened, and by the way, I stopped everything I was doing and start looking…. You know these moments like something draws your attention , you get all focused, and generally you added the words….. what the hell?????… I never understood why we bring ‘ hell’ up in those moments, but that’s how it is. Maybe it’s because when confronted we presume it must be from hell?. Here is the picture: Sunny, a stallion, who shared his life with his mare and one foal and another one on the way, lived happy family days. One day Sunny had managed his way into the paddock where Mc.guyver and its two mares were staying. Here comes that phrase. What the…… fuck…. Is he doing how the hell could this happen?. Sunny his intentions were clear, just like any stallion would have. But Mc.guyver went up to him. You need to know that Sunny is about three times Mc.guyvers side. Not only that, but Mc.guyver started to behave like a mare, he turned around and presented his backend’s. Sunny started to get excited. I really could not let this continue, so I enter the paddock and interfered with whatever was going on. I stopped Sunny from jumping upon to Mc.guyver. My action prevented me to understand what MacGyver was doing and why he was doing this but luckily about one year later the same situation with another horse happened again.. Since this horse was not a stallion anymore, but still a leader- kind of horse, I watched more closely. That horse also had find his way to the paddock of MacGyver and his two mares and Mc.guyver did the same thing again. Mc.guyver presented him again as a mare, just like he did with Sunny and it worked. Since this was a less dangerous situation., I leaned back against the wall and watched what happened.

My first impressions were right, MC.GUYVER acted as a mare would do. He would go up to the horse, turn around and present his behind , he even pushed against the front side of that other horse. The horse started to get excited and wanted to jump on top of him. The two mares who were standing with Mc.guyver in the paddock were keeping their distances, but they were not stressed by the spectacle. I still could not make any sense out of this situation. This horse was also two times the size of Mc.guyver. So after a while, I entered the paddock, stopped the spectacle and took the big horse out. Just as I turned around stepping out of the paddock, I saw Mc.guyver on top of one of his mares and penetrating her. Mc.guyver was already castrated before I bought him so apparently they still can perform but not to fertilise/ seed .

Now I understood it much clearer. I saw that Mc.guyver in order to keep and protect his mares had to do something. He would go up to the stallion and derive the stallion’s attention away from his mares by presenting himself as a mare would do. Clever thinking Mc.guyver, knowing that you stand in a paddock with no direct way out and two mares, knowing that confronting the horse twice size he could get injured and still lose the two mares but I’m not going to explain this situation away. No because since awhile now I realise that animals communicate and sense a lot before the actual physical contact.

This brings me to another story that back’s this statement. It’s the story about an Arabian mare called Saffier. (Sapphire). The first time I met Saffier it was because somebody asked me to find a good horse not too big but no pony neither, so since my experiences with my first riding school were of trust and confidence this would be easy. Upon arrival, apparently there were just two horses about the size I was looking for that were bought and ready to be sold. Two chestnut mares Arabian blood but not completely Arabian. They looked like two sisters and I still wonder today if it was not two foals of the same offspring or twins. I picked out Saffier(at the time she was called Djara). Djara spend a few years to be the company for an older horse Freya. After Freya died, I was asked if I would take Djara to my home. I recall when I went to fetch her that she almost trotted onto the trailer, it was clear she wanted out of there. I changed her name to Saffier. When we arrived at home, I could see she was quite sour for a long time. Also, there were some problems with her lungs. I had the time and I could give her the time she would need. I placed her in a stable and left the two other stables with the door open and empty so a small group of ponies could come and make contact. All my stables were open. Soon the group of Mcguyver came down and he passed by her stable leaving the one next to her empty. It was not the case that he didn’t saw her or that she was sour on him. I noticed that he maintained that behaviour towards her for quite a while. Even later when they went together on the Prairie, he kept his distance., when she came a bit closer, he let her do this, this until she made contact and then only then, boundaries were made. Meanwhile, observing Saffier with the other horses, it was clear that the more the others wanted to come closer, the more distant she became. It took about a whole year in order to get her lung system problematics balanced and also a whole year of observing and waiting for her expression of group integration and a sense of individual expression of the beauty, elegance and spirited intelligence she is. In fact, two words would describe her situation : history and health. For me, in this period I learned through the help of Ben and Jan my next steps of my own development and how to deal with horses with a history and horses health . Upon this day, it still works. Horses with a history has health issues and horses with health issues comes with a history. Two different stages, two different approaches; Ben ‘s teachings and know-how of giving the horses a way out of certain conflicted history. And Jan his ability to undo health issues caused trough their history with mankind. The only difference or discernment that needs to be done is the ‘ perceptive humanism view’ projected unto the animal. There is a saying; in order to know horses you need three lifetimes. 1. Living a lifetime with horses , secondly; caring for horses health and thirdly: training riding and exploring the potential of horses of all kinds.

I studied MacGyver’s approach and position and when I worked her, I left a lot of time and space towards her choice to make contact or not. I considered myself moving forward with her in my work, the moment I saw she made a move towards me. I paused, letting that moment to sink in, In the both of us . So we could call this a start. She was in need to have that, she needed the space and MacGyver needed to do so.. horses with histories of previous owners or situations they encounter with mankind do good to make a distinction while working with them, they are in need to get old habits out and we need to approache them with ‘that fact’ in the back of our minds.

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